Thursday, January 13, 2011

Still thankful for God's mercy 30 years later

On a cold day in January in 1981 the phone ringing woke me up. When I said hello I heard the shocking voice of our son Tim blurting out the words, "Dad, my apartment burned up; my car burned up. I lost everything but my shorts! I am lucky to be alive!" My wife and I jumped in our car and drove as fast as possible to Monroeville, Alabama. Numb and blinded by tears of gratitude we soon witnessed the remains of Tim's apartment and his beloved Mustang. He had indeed nothing left but the shorts he had been sleeping in. He told us what happened. He was awakened by a hissing sound. Looking around he figured the sound was coming from the gas space heater in the room. Afraid something was wrong, he turned toward the door just as the room exploded, blowing the door out into the yard where it quickly set his car on fire. He managed to crawl out the door. The hair on the back of his head was burned by the fire but miraculously he was not injured. We thought of John Wesley; our son Tim was another "brand plucked from the burning," a phrase Susannah Wesley used to describe John's rescue from the burning parsonage.
We quickly bought Tim a supply of new clothes and basic supplies at Wal-Mart and found him another apartment. Without a car, and without any of his prized possessions, he continued his forestry studies at the Junior College. We drove back home to Montgomery, my wife in shock that I would leave our son there instead of taking him back home with us. Years later Tim would say that losing everything was one of the best things that ever happened to him; in a moment of time he discovered what really matters in life.
A few days ago Tim send me this email:
"Yep, 30 years have passed. I was thinking again this morning about the words I spoke to you “Dad, I’m lucky to be alive”. Over the years I have realized a better way to state that would be “I’m blessed to be alive”. I was saved for a purpose and I need to listen to his voice to make sure I know what the purpose is and fulfill it."
Mom and I are so thankful to God for sparing Tim's life, but even more thankful that this rescue inspired Tim to realize that he was "saved for a purpose." He has become a respected forester who serves the Lord daily as he works with people and trees. We admire the man, the husband and the father that he has become.
Each of us is alive for a purpose. Like Tim we need to "listen" to God's voice and do our best to fulfill the purpose for which we are alive. We don't have to lose everything to become aware that God has a purpose for each of our lives. But we must be willing to listen and obey to fulfill God's destiny for our lives.

1 comment:

  1. I enjoyed this post and I am so blessed to have such a godly man for my father!

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